Sometimes it may seem that Christians have over-reacted to
the matter of gambling. Is it really that big of a “deal” (no pun intended)? After
all, what’s a little bit of harmless entertainment? Why not blow a few dollars
and take a chance? Besides, some argue, doesn't the lottery really help
education and thus benefit society? Well, it turns out that people with little
or no expressed religious interest have recognized, just from a practical
perspective, the dangers of gambling.
The January-February issue of the AARP Bulletin printed an article by Peter Jaret and Bill Hogan entitled, “A Desperate Gamble.” The
message and the warnings are powerful, though the authors make no reference to
God, religion, or the Bible.
Hear the story of San Diego Mayor Maureen O’Connor, heiress
to a $50 million fortune, who gambled away her life savings.
"It was like electronic
heroin,” O’Connor said of the
machine she thought she could beat. “You know, the more you did, the more you
needed—and the more it wasn't satisfied.” But in the end it was the machine
that beat O’Connor, leaving the former San
Diego mayor and heiress to a $50 million fortune all
but destitute. At 67, she now lives with her twin sister instead of in the beachfront
estate in La Jolla that she and her late
husband, the founder of the Jack in the Box fast-food chain, once called home.
O’Connor’s addiction to video poker (“that machine,” she
called it) was all-consuming. In nine years she placed more than $1 billion in
bets at casinos in San Diego, Las
Vegas and Atlantic City.
O’Connor, in fact, was such a high roller—a “whale,” to use the industry’s
not-so-flattering term—that Vegas casinos would send a private jet to pick her
up in San Diego. She didn't disappoint. “I could lose more than a hundred
thousand in a day,” she told an interviewer last February.
As her losses mounted—eventually reaching something like
$13 million, according to her lawyers—O’Connor did what eventually landed her
in a federal courtroom, charged with the felony crime of money laundering: She
took $2,088,000 from a charitable foundation set up by her husband in 1966,
depleting its assets and leaving it insolvent.
What caused O’Connor—a onetime champion swimmer, San
Diego’s hard-charging “Mayor Mo” from 1986 to 1992—to fall into such an abyss?
She herself blamed an addiction to gambling made worse by a brain tumor,
diagnosed in 2011. Her lawyers noted in court filings that she turned to
gambling in a big way sometime around 2001, as she continued to struggle with
pain and loneliness following the death of her husband. “The pattern,” her
lawyers wrote, “fits the syndrome known as grief gambling.”
Under a deferred-prosecution agreement, O’Connor promised
to undergo treatment for gambling addiction, repay the money she took from the
foundation and cover the tax liability associated with her misappropriation of
funds.
Hear the story of Marilyn Lancelot, whose gambling cost her
all she had, led to forgery, and landed her in prison.
Marilyn Lancelot lost almost everything, too: two homes,
her car and her life savings. But it wasn't until police arrived and led her
off in handcuffs that her life finally hit rock bottom. Deep in debt, she’d
begun forging her boss’s name on checks and cashing them to feed a runaway
gambling addiction. “There wasn’t anything I wouldn’t do to get more money to
gamble,” says Lancelot, 83. Convicted of embezzlement, she spent almost a year
in prison.
A Gamblers Anonymous program was able to help Lancelot,
though others never recover from gambling fever. “It saved my life,” says
Marilyn Lancelot. After being released from prison, she began attending GA
meetings. She slowly paid off her debts and has managed to steer clear of
gambling. “For a recovering gambler, there’s always the itch to try it again,”
she admits. “But I know now that if I give in to it, I’m dead.”
Are you surprised to learn that Marilyn Lancelot is 83? You
may have thought that it was just young people that were tempted to gamble.
Older adults ought to know better than to start, right? Not so! Read on.
The number of casinos has exploded over the past few decades.
In the 1960s, only Atlantic City and Nevada had casino
gambling. Today, casinos operate in more than 30 states. Add state lotteries,
Powerball and now Internet gambling sites, and there are plenty of ways to try
your luck and lose a little cash. Many adult communities, assisted living
centers and even churches organize outings to nearby casinos.
It’s easy to understand why they are a big draw, says Jon
Grant, M.D., a professor of psychiatry and behavioral medicine at the University of Chicago. “Casinos are full of sights and
sounds where older people can feel safe. They’re handicapped accessible. You
can go in any kind of weather.”
In fact, experts say, older Americans are the
fastest-growing segment of gambling addicts. For about 8 percent, it’s an
addiction that can cost them their retirement nest egg. “About 40 percent of
the people we see are over 50,” says psychologist Robert Hunter, who directs the
Problem Gambling
Center in Las Vegas. “Many of them are people who got
into trouble after retiring and moving to a place where casinos are a big part
of social life.”
The nation’s $40 billion a year gambling industry
aggressively targets older customers, as they have accumulated wealth and are
especially vulnerable, experts say, to wagering more than they can afford. The
enticements range from free bus trips, meals and even discount prescription
cards to “comped” hotel accommodations—not to mention the private jets
dispatched to pick up high-rollers like O’Connor.
“One of the lessons of the Maureen O’Connor case,” says
Philip Halpern, the assistant U.S.
attorney who prosecuted her, “is that it demonstrates the extreme lengths to
which casinos will go to lure in high-stakes customers.”
Gambling-industry marketers also know that advancing age,
and the declining cognition that sometimes goes with it, can reduce a person’s
aversion to risk. “With age, there can be a decrease in the activity of
decision-making parts of the brain related to executive functioning,” Grant
says. “If you have a deficit because of age, gambling may become riskier for
you.”
Psychologists also suspect that people are more likely to
run into problems if they turn to gambling for the wrong reasons—to escape
loneliness, depression or even chronic pain.
“For a lot of the older people we see, it was never about
the money,” says Gordon Greco, 62, a compulsive gambler most of his life who
now works as a counselor for the Problem
Gambling Center
in Las Vegas.
“They go to the casino to escape regrets, loneliness, isolation, sadness. And
when they start losing money, they find themselves with even bigger problems
and regrets.”
Video gambling machines, now permitted in more than 40
states, are the overwhelming favorite among older casino-goers, Hunter says.
And that puts them at even greater risk. Although any kind of gambling can
become addictive, video slot and poker machines are the most seductive because
they offer the greatest escape, experts say. “Machine gambling is really the
crack cocaine of compulsive gambling,” says Lia Nower, the director of the
Center for Gambling Studies at Rutgers
University in New Jersey.
Indeed, in Addiction
by Design: Machine Gambling in Las Vegas, Massachusetts Institute of
Technology anthropologist Natasha Schull argues that mechanical rhythms that
lull players into a trance-like state are deliberately built into electronic
gambling machines. In what Schull calls the “machine zone,” gamblers quickly
lose track of daily worries, social demands and even their bodily needs.
Some psychologists and psychiatrists specialize in treating
gambling addiction. Compulsive gamblers, these experts say, suffer from low
self-esteem and fall into two broad categories: action gamblers, who relish
excitement and believe they can beat the house, and escape gamblers, who seek
to forget about pain or trauma in their lives.
The AARP piece also names eight “big losers,” famous people
whose gambling cost them extensively. We’ll include that list in the next post.
Meanwhile, there’s one choice that involves no gamble at all. It’s the decision
to follow Jesus. Trust me. You can’t lose.
