This post is written by my colleague and friend, Spencer Ross. I am grateful and glad to share it.
Should I send my kids to public or
private school? In this twisted world, should I just home school my kiddos?
Every Christian family must honestly consider each option and choose the best
route for them. A majority of Christians opt to utilize the public school
option. This comes with a price (other
than paying your taxes). Our schools do not teach and view the world through
the lens of Christianity. For many different reasons, public education is
immersed in secularism.
At the end of summer, I often ask
students if they are ready for the new school year. Most of them are hesitant
to say “yes” because they have not finished their dreaded required summer
reading. Most school districts have similar recommend reading lists that
teachers will use for their student’s required reading.
Recently, one parent at the church
where I labor noticed the content of one of the books his daughter was reading.
The book was Anthem by Ayn Rand. The
messages in the book were very disturbing to this Christian father. Anthem promotes
human autonomy, freedom from any higher authority than oneself, and the view
that the author herself is “god.” This book denies the need to serve others
unselfishly and calls the reader instead to live a self-centered, self-serving
life. It presents a philosophy or belief system regarding deity, humanity,
self, others, and the meaning of life. In that sense it is a religious book.
Atheism, as well as theism, is a faith system or worldview.
How should a Christian parent respond?
How should a Christian parent respond to anything that the education system promotes
that is opposed to Christ? Let me offer just three general suggestions that parents
can specifically apply to their unique situations.
(1) Create An
Environment of Open Discussion
Our teenage students are going through
this fast paced age of reasoning and enlightenment stage of life. They want to
understand why they have been taught to believe and act in a certain way. They
are curious to what opposing views advocate. My prayer as a parent is to create
an environment where my children feel comfortable to ask questions and
challenge fundamental beliefs without the fear of quick retaliation. I want to
use opportunities like homework about humanism as an occasion to emphasis why
the Christian worldview is superior.
Jesus did not have scheduled Bible
study sessions. In Scripture, he would use everyday life as classrooms to
communicate spiritual truths. As a parent I can use the awkward experiences of
inappropriate behavior we are exposed to on television, movies, and music as
teachable moments to discuss the Christian worldview.
God has blessed us with a mind and
wisdom, and we should embrace education and learning. Paul was a well-versed
student of secular studies as evidenced by his quotations in his speech on Mars
Hill.
(2) Be a Concerned
Parent
My position on the whole public,
private, or home school debate is that we must be concerned parents. I feel
compelled as a Christian parent to come across as a “nosy” father. As we grow
up we can reflect on our childhood and conclude that our parents seemed to care
about us by how much they invested in my school, extracurricular activities,
and faith. There seems to be a correlation between uninvolved parenting and
sinful activity with teenagers.
Ken Ham’s book Already Gone documents research about how our teens are losing
their faith before they even leave the home of their parents. In the study,
students did not believe in the literal Genesis account and the complete
inspiration of Scripture. It is strongly recommend that concerned parents
emphasis apologetics in their home. Apologetics is the study of reasoned
arguments in justification of Christianity.
Teens deep down would admit that they
are appreciate to have concerned parents because it is a demonstration that
they truly care about their physical, social, educational, and spiritual well-being.
(3) Take
Appropriate Action
We represent Christ with our words and
actions. 1 Peter 3:21 “but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always
being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the
hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” It is perfectly
justifiable to be angry about literature that is contrary to God’s word.
However, we must be “angry and sin not” (Ephesians 4:26). Remember our attitudes when we address these
situations.
We should not be hesitant to express
our concerns to teachers, school boards, and other parents. You never know what
kind of reaction you may get just for bringing something up. Many people never
firmly and kindly express their complaints. Most school districts have policies
in place to request the removal of books. Many parents can offer suggestions.
For example, Mere Christianity by
C.S. Lewis would be a comparable reading to serve as a counter study to Anthem. This would create more balance
and diversity.
Ask the Lord for wisdom how you as a
Christian ought to react to anything in the public school system that bothers
your conscious and challenges your core beliefs. “If any of you lacks wisdom,
let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be
given him” (James 1:5).
