Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts

Friday, May 04, 2018

Sometimes We Love What Doesn’t Happen - by Dr. Bill Bagents


This post is written by my outstanding friend and former coworker, Dr. Bill Bagents. Bill serves as the most capable Vice President of Academics at Heritage Christian University in Florence, Alabama.
I think I’m supposed to have an eye exam every year or so, but I don’t do it. The latest exam revealed the need for new glasses, but it had one major bonus. Because I was scheduled to see the retina specialist in two weeks, my regular doctor did not dilate my pupils. Great choice, as it takes my eyes way too long to un-dilate.
I recently dropped a can of soda in the pantry. My previous dropped can exploded, and it took twenty minutes to clean up the mess. This time, there was no explosion and no mess.
I was hurrying to make an appointment on time. I appreciate early, and I hate late. The person meeting me also hates late and tends to arrive notably early. On this occasion, we both got delayed, but still arrived just at the chosen hour. Neither of us had to wait even a minute.
Most of us have been in “almost wrecks.” Looking back, we see how close we came, and we’re moved to grateful prayer. We even know people who have had “almost wrecks” with chainsaws.
Sometimes we love the fact that what so easily could have happened did not. Biblical examples abound.
• Noah could have been just as evil as the world around him, but “Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord” because he consistently did just as God commanded him (Genesis 6:8).
• Joseph could have surrendered to disappointment and fallen all the way to despair. His brothers sold him as a slave, his master’s wife lied about him, and his fellow prisoner whom he helped forgot him. But Joseph stayed with God, kept his faith, and acted with consistent integrity (Genesis 37ff). Joseph let God use him to save countless lives.
• Moses could have chosen “to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin” within Pharaoh’s house, but he “chose to suffer affliction with the people of God” (Hebrews 11:25).
• Caleb and Joshua could have chosen to be as faithless and fearful as their ten fellow spies, but they stepped up and gave God great glory (Numbers 13-14).
• Daniel’s three friends could have “given themselves a pass”—just this once (Daniel 3). After all, the furnace was a life-and-death situation, and they had no promise of God’s physical protection. They stand as great examples of faith overcoming fear.
• Daniel could have closed his shutters or changed his time of prayer when he knew of the plot against his life, but he prayed in the upper room with the window open “as was his custom since early days” (Daniel 6:10). He refused to be ruled by fear or controlled by his enemies.
• To cite the most powerful example, Jesus could have asked the Father to spare His life, and God would have sent “more than twelve legions of angels” (Matthew 26:53). If so, we’d be without hope, without a Redeemer, and without a purpose in life.

Sunday, February 18, 2018

Keys to the Kingdom – The Sermon on the Mount - 02 ATTITUDE


What’s the single most important element in your life, your marriage and family, your faith, and your joy? What’s the one thing that sets the tone for all the others? It’s your attitude.
Reading: Matt 5:1-12
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Charles Swindoll: The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past ... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes.
You cannot control the direction or the strength of the wind, but you can change the set of your sail.
Attitude determines altitude and outweighs aptitude.
What you think determines what you are, and that determines what you do.
We agree with that, and yet we can easily let other people and circumstances mess with our attitude! Stop blaming anyone else or anything else for your attitude. It’s yours! Own it! Evaluate it! Change it!
So, how would Jesus begin His message to His disciples on that hillside in Galilee? He begins with attitude. Before He gives a “to-do” list, He gives a “to-be” list. He notes eight attitudes that we can and must choose.
And what paradoxes they are!
The world says, “Happy are the proud and the pushy, the powerful and the popular, the selfish and the sinful, the rough and the rude. Jesus ironically promises happiness to the poor in spirit, those who mourn, the meek, those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, the merciful, the pure in heart, the peacemakers, and the persecuted. His key works!
Finish the sentence:
Happiness is … Happy are … wealthy, powerful, pushy, charming, attractive, athletic, accomplished, elected, healthy, young, comfortable, entertained, amused, cute, employed, secure …
I’ll be happy when … if … as long as … I am pleasing to God.
“Blessed are” = “These are the people that God will bless with true happiness.” Honored, rewarded, favored by God.
Stott: Jesus’ “teaching on the hill” depicts the behavior which He expected of each disciple, who is also thereby a citizen of God’s kingdom. We see the disciple as he is in himself, in his heart, motives and thoughts, and in the secret place with his Father. We also see him in the arena of public life, in his relations with his fellow men, showing mercy, making peace, being persecuted, acting like salt, letting his light shine, loving and serving others (even his enemies), and devoting himself above all to the extension of God’s kingdom and righteousness in the world.
We could title 5:1-12 either “character” or “attitude.”
1. The Poor in Spirit
Inwardly bankrupt, overdrawn, drained, and spent.
Without the means to buy God’s favor.
Aware of failure to achieve God’s perfect standard.
On spiritual welfare, solely dependent on God.
Dissatisfied with the things of this world.
Dissatisfied with how little of God they have.
More eager for God’s riches than for __________.
Example: Mary’s Magnificat. Luke 1:46-55.
Because: theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.
Luke 1:52 “He has brought down rulers from their thrones, And has exalted those who were humble. 53 He has filled the hungry with good things; And sent away the rich empty-handed.”
2. Those Who Mourn
Because they are first poor in spirit …
Sorrowing over their poverty and sin. 2 Cor 7:10
Sorrowing and grieving over the lost. Rom 9:1-2
Shedding tears over false teaching. Phil 3:18
Distraught over others’ attacks. Ps 56, esp. 11
Crying over others’ disobedience. Ps 119:136
Example: Peter’s bitter tears. Matt 26:75
Because: they shall be comforted.
Matt 26:75 And Peter remembered the word which Jesus had said, “Before a rooster crows, you will deny Me three times.” And he went out and wept bitterly.
3. The Meek
πραΰς praüs – tame, saddled, disciplined, self-controlled, gentle, humble, considerate, courteous.
Calm, quiet, agreeable, reverent, in control.
Under God’s control, will, and direction.
Not weak, timid, afraid, or cowardly.
Not opposite to strong, but opposite to aggressive, arrogant, forceful, mean, rude, self-centered.
Example: Jesus. Matt 11:28-30; 21:1-11
They shall inherit the earth. Ps 37, esp. 11
Ps 37:8 Cease from anger and forsake wrath; Do not fret; it leads only to evildoing. 9 For evildoers will be cut off, But those who wait for the LORD, they will inherit the land. 10 Yet a little while and the wicked man will be no more; And you will look carefully for his place and he will not be there. 11 But the humble will inherit the land And will delight themselves in abundant prosperity.
In OT, this meant Israel through meekness would receive the Promised Land, so we through meekness will be vindicated on earth wherever God’s rule is realized.
With God as Sovereign, we never again are at the mercy of anything in the world.
The earth is ours, because we are His.
4. Those Who Hunger and Thirst for Righteousness
Craving to be right with God and do right for God.
As a starving, dying man longs for food.
Ps 19:10; 119:103 Sweeter also than honey …
Ps 34:8-10; 42:1-2 Taste and see … As the deer …
Ps 63:1 I seek … my soul thirsts …
1 Pet 2:1-3 As newborn babes for milk …
Luke 1:51-54 He has filled the hungry …
Example: Jesus. Matt 4:1-4
Because: They shall be satisfied.
Matt 4:1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 And after He had fasted forty days and forty nights, He then became hungry. 3 And the tempter came and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.” 4 But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.’”
Stott: Looking back, we can see that the first four beatitudes reveal a spiritual progression of relentless logic. Each step leads to the next and presupposes the one that has gone before. To begin with, we are to be ‘poor in spirit’, acknowledging our complete and utter spiritual bankruptcy before God. Next we are to ‘mourn’ over the cause of it, our sins, yes, and our sin too—the corruption of our fallen nature, and the reign of sin and death in the world. Thirdly, we are to be ‘meek’, humble and gentle towards others, allowing our spiritual poverty (admitted and bewailed) to condition our behaviour to them as well as to God. And fourthly we are to ‘hunger and thirst for righteousness’. For what is the use of confessing and lamenting our sin, of acknowledging the truth about ourselves to both God and men, if we leave it there? Confession of sin must lead to hunger for righteousness.
5. The Merciful
Compassionate to people in need, misery, distress.
Aiming to relieve, soothe, help, and heal.
Distinguishing sheep from goats. Matt 25:31-46
Matt 9:27-31 Two blind men
Matt 15:22 A Canaanite woman
Matt 17:15 A possessed son’s father
Matt 20:29-34 Two blind men
Luke 17:11-19 Ten lepers
Example: the Good Samaritan. Luke 10:25-37
Because: They shall receive mercy.
Luke 10:33 “But a Samaritan, who was on a journey, came upon him; and when he saw him, he felt compassion, 34 and came to him and bandaged up his wounds, pouring oil and wine on them; and he put him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn and took care of him.
Grace forgives sin. Mercy comforts the sinner, the hurting, etc.
6. The Pure in Heart
Sincere, genuine, real. Undivided, unmixed.
Without pretense or hypocrisy.
“Purge me, wash me, create in me …” Ps 51:7-12
So, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. 2 Cor 7:1
Because: They shall see God.
2 Cor 7:1 So, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.
7. The Peacemakers
Healing division, friction and alienation. Bridging.
Communicating, counseling, confronting.
“Son of” suggests that this word characterizes a person. To be called godly or like God or sons of God, what quality must be seen in your life? Peacemaking, not strife, gossip, hatred, division, anger.
Can take an insult without striking back. Has no arrogance or revenging spirit.
Wholly given over to God, he has nothing left to lose! No pride! Nothing to defend!
When one lives that way, others will say, “I see God in him/her.”
MATT 5:44-45 Love your enemies; don’t get mad or get even; make peace.
S. Truett Cathy: founder of Chick-Fil-A. On a program with Robert Schuller, he shared the story of how he had launched this successful business: “In the early stages of Chick-Fil-A, we were anxious to advertise our product. One day an idea dawned on me. There were competing newspapers in town, and the editors of these papers wouldn’t walk on the same side of the street with each other! Since everyone knew about their feud, I invited the two editors to meet with me. I asked each one individually if he’d come down to discuss a full-page ad. Neither one knew I had called the other. When they got there and found themselves face to face with each other, they knew something was up. “I said, ‘If you’ll do one thing for me, I’ll give both of you a full-page ad. All I want you to do is sit over there in that booth and eat a chicken sandwich together. When you get through, shake hands. Then we’ll add the caption, ‘We disagree on many things, but there’s one thing we both agree on: This is the best chicken sandwich we’ve ever eaten!’” Robert Schuller
Example: Jesus via the cross. Eph 2:14-22
Because: They shall be called sons of God.
Matt 5:23 “Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.
8. The Persecuted
From 3rd person “those” to 2nd person “you.”
Hated, insulted, scorned, ostracized. Luke 6:22-23
Not our attitude or character, but others’ reaction.
Even a peacemaker cannot succeed with all.
Example: Stephen. Acts 6-7
Because: Theirs is the Kingdom of God. Your reward in heaven is great. So they persecuted the prophets.
1 Pet 4:13 but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing, so that also at the revelation of His glory you may rejoice with exultation. 14 If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. 15 Make sure that none of you suffers as a murderer, or thief, or evildoer, or a troublesome meddler; 16 but if anyone suffers as a Christian, he is not to be ashamed, but is to glorify God in this name.
The Flip Side
Luke 6:24 “But woe to you who are rich, for you are receiving your comfort in full. 25 Woe to you who are well-fed now, for you shall be hungry. Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep. 26 Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for their fathers used to treat the false prophets in the same way.”
Possible hymns:
Blessed Assurance
As the Deer
Give Thanks with a Grateful Heart
O to Be Like Thee
More Like Jesus

More About Jesus

Thursday, November 09, 2017

Just Odd


This post is written by my fine friend and former coworker, Dr. Bill Bagents. Bill serves as the Vice President of Academics at Heritage Christian University in Florence, Alabama, and as a minister and elder with the Mars Hill church of Christ there. He writes thoughtfully, with humor and humility. – Cory

Why is it “fiery” and not firey? After all, the root word is fire.

Why do we love redundancy so much? Déjà vu all over again. Revert back. Read the following text below. Past history. And don’t get me started on future plans. Planning the past seldom works.

Why do we love phrases that are just plain dumb? Football announcers frequently say “young freshman” as if that were outside the norm. The only time it’s worth mentioning is when the freshman isn’t young. Same deal when they speak of some professional sports star as a “gifted athlete.” Non-gifted athletes don’t get to be professional sports stars.

Why do some speakers spend precious seconds telling us how little time they have been allotted to speak and how much more they could share if they had more time? Just get on with it.

Any logo or tagline that needs an explanation didn’t work. Same with any joke or illustration.

Did you hear about the family who bought a dog at Pet Smart, but it wasn’t?

Why is it always way too late when they finally say to us, “To make a long story short”?

Maybe you saw the article about the anti-abortion congressman who resigned after getting caught demanding that his mistress have an abortion. You can’t make this stuff up; and if you did, no one would believe you.

When people say to me, “You’re looking good,” I feel that I’ve encountered a multiple-choice test. Is it …

a. Exceedingly gracious, so that “Thank you” is the proper response?

b. Hyperbole mixed with satire?

c. A sign of cognitive decline?

d. Severely failing eyesight?

e. An excellent example of ellipsis? What they really mean is either “You’re looking good for a person of your advanced years,” or “You’re looking good in that I thought you died a few years ago.”

I like living on a dead-end street; I either start or end every day by repenting.

I like living adjacent to a cemetery; very quiet neighbors, at least so far.

The older I get, the more I’m okay with people asking me for advice and then rejecting it. I don’t take it personally, and it leaves me feeling no responsibility for the outcome of their decision.

All this and more is filed under Romans 12:3: “For I say…to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think…” James 1:19 and 3:2 also fit. None of us is immune.

--Bill

Wednesday, June 15, 2016

The Church Secretary of Noble Character



The ministry team of the Keller church of Christ is experiencing a great loss. There is no adequate way to show appreciation to a dear sister for her faithful, consistent, and effective service to the Lord here in the church office for the past 19 years. Her love for the Lord and for this church have been evident in all her endeavors.

Tanya and I are personally grateful for her help in our beginning period with this great church. She has assisted us in countless ways over the last four-plus years. It is our experience that having a fine person like her in her position makes all the difference in the work of ministers and a ministry team. She has been a great blessing to us.

We are so thankful that she and her family will remain active and involved members of the Keller church family. We pray for God's richest blessings as she begins her new chapter.

I have omitted her name for the sake of privacy, but it is to her that the following piece is dedicated. I have edited the material, whose original author I do not know.

The Church Secretary of Noble Character

A noble administrative assistant, who can find? She is worth far more than computers.

· Church members have full confidence in her as they look for typing errors in the bulletin. · She is on 24-hour call and is required to know all the answers to all questions as well as everything else that is happening in the congregation. · She works with eager hands to keep from getting any copier toner on her clothes, as she is often called to find the paper jam. · Someone always comes to her before or after services to ask her to add their name to a list, make some request, or point out things they think she has failed to do the past week. · She is like merchant ships, bringing yummy treats in for meetings and potlucks. · She gets up while others are sleeping and provides daily needs for her physical family, then arrives at the church building early to open the building and start the coffee pot. · She considers bulletin paper and buys it; she has on hand office supplies needed by the minister and other workers. · She shares her desk with the congregation, never knowing what she will find there when she comes in Monday morning. · She sets about her work vigorously; her door is always open for those who have a “little” job that needs to be done immediately! · She sees that her congregation is well informed about deaths, sickness, and other happenings. · She is expected to know where the ministers are AT ALL TIMES! · She is multi-talented. She can talk on the phone, work on the computer, run the copier, take notes, file correspondence, listen to someone in the office, stuff envelopes, and answer the door - ALL AT THE SAME TIME! · She opens her heart (and ear) to church members who call her when they are upset about something or someone. · She shows compassion to those who call or come to the building needing food or other assistance. · She is clothed in strength and dignity; she can laugh (but only to herself!) when wisely answering an obvious question and can single-handedly move a copier three times her weight (because there may not be anyone around when she needs help). · She translates garbled messages and stories into proper bulletin news.

Many secretaries do noble things, but this sister is one of the very, very best!




Thursday, May 19, 2016

What’s in Your Wallet?

He was arguably the greatest basketball coach of all time, whether at the college or professional level. He broke all kinds of records. He led the UCLA Bruins to ten national titles in twelve years, including seven consecutive championships. His players at one point won 88 games in a row, and he was chosen as the national coach of the year six times.
As you may know, he was John Wooden. He died in 2010, just a few months shy of his 100th birthday. Wooden believed that, before you could lead anyone else, you had to lead yourself. His personal principles empowered him to have the great influence he exerted, both on and off the court. No matter your field, whether ministry, business, or sports, you would do well to study the life and character of John Wooden.
What made the difference in his life was an item that he kept in his wallet.
It was a piece of paper that Wooden's father gave him when he was only twelve. Tattered and worn, it was his constant companion and source of guiding principles. Here’s how it read:
Be true to yourself.
Make each day your masterpiece.
Help others.
Drink deeply from good books, especially the Bible.
Make friendship a fine art.
Build shelter against a rainy day.
Pray for guidance and give thanks for your blessings every day.
For 87 years, until he was 99 years old plus, this creed molded Coach Wooden’s life.
In addition, he believed that happiness comes from making and keeping nine promises:
1. Promise yourself that you will talk health, happiness and prosperity as often as possible.
2. Promise yourself to make all your friends know there is something in them that is special that you value.
3. Promise to think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best in yourself and others.
4. Promise to be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
5. Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
6. Promise to forget the mistakes of the past and press on to greater achievements in the future.
7. Promise to wear a cheerful appearance at all times and give every person you meet a smile.
8. Promise to give so much time improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
9. Promise to be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear and too happy to permit trouble to press on you.
If the Apostle Paul had owned a wallet, what would he have kept in it? What were his guiding principles, his compass points, his fundamental beliefs? Here is a passage that gives us a clear sense of the road map that he followed, and the one that must be ours as well.
Phil 3:8–14 (NASB95)
8 More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ, 9 and may be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own derived from the Law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which comes from God on the basis of faith, 10 that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death; 11 in order that I may attain to the resurrection from the dead. 12 Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. 13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
What’s in your wallet?
Cory Collins


Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Simple Ways to Get the Most Out of Today – Author Unknown




John 9:4 We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work.
Of course the first step to improving each day is to draw near to God in Bible study and prayer. Effective living focuses on worshiping Him, serving Him, and sharing Him with others every day. Based on that foundation, the following are practical tips (from an unknown author) that can bring satisfying results in each of our lives.
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day.  And while you walk, smile.  It is the ultimate anti-depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.  Talk to God about what is going on in your life.  Buy a lock if you have to.
3. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, “My purpose today is to__________ today.”  “I am thankful for______________.”
4. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
5. Drink green tea and plenty of water.  Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds and walnuts.
6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
7. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.  Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
8. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out credit card.
9. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
11. Don’t take yourself so seriously.  No one else does.
12.  You are not so important that you have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
13. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
14. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
16. Frame every so-called disaster with this question:  “In five years, will this matter?”
17. Forgive everyone for everything.
18. What other people think of you is none of your business.
19. God heals everything in His own time and way – but you have to ask Him.
20. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
21. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.  Your friends will. Stay in touch!!!
22. Envy is a waste of time.  You already have all you need.
23. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: “I am thankful for __________.”  “Today I accomplished _________.”
24. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed or depressed.
25. When you are feeling down, start listing your many blessings. You’ll be smiling before you know it.